Imagine how you can deal with teaching children of different ages and with different personalities to make wise decisions in a given situation. Teaching your children to make wise decisions can be a difficult task, but it can be done with the right techniques along with a lot of patience. You must show them how to engage their will in a strong and meaningful way. You should also show them that they have the power to say “yes” and “no” and mean it. Here are 5 ways to teach your kids to choose wisely when the situation forces them to make a decision:
- Be a role model your kids can look up to. Leading by example is very important. It serves as the basic principle on which you can make your children follow you or your rules. You must begin by instilling in your children through you the concept that every man, who is endowed with intellect and will, is a special creature of God. You must make them understand that man can not only reason, but can also choose freely. And, in their case, even if they are children, they too are able to choose freely and for what they believe may be good for them. You, as a parent, are without a doubt the best person who could teach your children how to choose, starting with such simple acts as making them deliberately choose to pick up a toy or move an arm or leg.
- Take an interest in what your children are excited about. If one of your children is interested in music and the other is very excited about chess, show your support for each of them. Help each of them discover their interests or what they are passionate about. Once they feel they have your support for the things they are passionate about, you can start providing real-life examples of people who share the same interests and are successful. In this way, you are teaching them that hard work and dedication are crucial to success, and you are also showing them that, with these traits, making the right decision can bring great results.
- Teach your children to distinguish their own strengths and weaknesses. It is important that you teach your children to learn about their own strengths and weaknesses. They have to know where and what they are really good at and what and where they are struggling against. Once you’ve shown them an honest appraisal of themselves, it can pave the way for them to make better decisions based on their abilities. Still, you should continue to encourage them to try many wonderful things, but always remind them to focus more on what they can excel at.
- Speak up and listen to what your children are afraid or hesitant to say. Open communication is a very important component of parenting, but it is also often difficult to achieve. Take the time to talk to your children. Because once you take the time to find common areas where you link an actual illicit argument with your children, it is one way that you gain invaluable information on how they think. And based on that interaction between you and your children, it lets you know which decision might be the best for your children even before something happens. If you think it is not the right one, then you can step in and steer it in the right direction.
- Tell your children that it’s okay to make mistakes. As a parent, it is natural for you to protect your children from all potential dangers. But don’t be afraid if your children make mistakes. All people do. What is important is the lesson to be learned from these mistakes. When you let your children learn a hard lesson from their own mistakes and then talk to them about it is a way to give them great insight. As a result, they can learn to choose which path is better and which is bad. You’re also trying to instill in their young minds this all too obvious truth; that what you choose in life makes you who you are and ultimately determines where you will spend the rest of your life.
If you like or enjoy what you are reading, you may consider buying us a coffee here as a way to show your support or say thank you.